After spending hours on all fours cleaning the refrigerator，I can’t remember ever hearing anyone say，“Gee，Mom，the refrigerator looks great！”And no one ever says，“l’m so glad all the buttons are on my shirt this morning.”Or，“Aw.shucks，dear，you made the bed！”But，boy，do I hear about it if there’s a button missing，a sticky floor，or an unmade bed.Sometimes it seems there’s a universal misconception that I have exclusive rights to the sewing box，the mop，and the linen closet.（I’m doing my best to reconceive that idea！）